Well the topic love is what we want to discuss about. But, there has been a popular thought that all of us believes. This is that, love oftens hurts. Well, I have something to say about this and that is what I want to share with all of you.

Love hurts but when? Well, a number of situation can lead to this situation. My love can leave me or it may happens that somehow our contact stopped. But, I am just thinking why that brings pain in our life? Did I expect something from her? Is my pain is bacause I am cheated or I did not get her?

It can be anything but has to be linked with the word EXPECTATION!

I expected something. May be, a beautiful future, some evening walk or anything. And I feel so bad because I am understanding that I am gonna miss those.

But, do all these relate to the feeling "love"? Obviously NO.

I am sure some of you are saying to me "what the hell these guy is writing?". And I have a question to all those guys.."Did you know that your love loves you when you fell in love? Did you expect anything when you first saw and started loving?". Answer is quite obvious and is NO.

If your answer is not No then rethink whether you loved or not..

So the point is that when relationship grows a number of expectation build up.. and that is making the problem.. creating a lot of expectation.. if fulfilled then its okay( not so much happiness) but if not then a lot of problem , pain and quarell, misunderstanding and every moments HURT your tiny heart. Shit! just think expectation just messed up your sweet relationship.. just wiped away your feelings for your love.. so pathetic I feel.

So why not stop expecting and be happy with the feeling that I have loved and I can love all my life whatever happens... Such a nice feeling.. and you can be happy with your feeling that "I have such a great heart! I am loving my love" and this may keep your relationship stable and romantic...

I really want some comments on this!